Chocolate, the beach, a good book… We each find things that calm our nerves and ease our minds. Unfortunately, some are a bit unhealthier than others. Consider my therapy - shopping!
Even before Christian Louboutin had any meaning to me, shopping was an obsession. It’s something about the possibility of finding that amazing item – the treasure hunt of it all – that gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling. Rough day in high school? I went to Express and bought an outfit. Weekend party in college? I scoured T.J. Maxx and Steinmart for a cute top (a little less play money). Tired of law school? I went window shopping around the city (a LOT less play money). Whether I intended to buy something or just wanted to be inspired, shopping has always served to clear my head.
To this day, if I feel frazzled or just a little blue, I’ll head to the Summit in Birmingham and walk around a few of my favorite stores. Saks is usually quiet and always full of beautifully crafted clothing (think Milly, Tibi, Nanette Lepore). I go to Anthropologie, on the other hand, more for the window displays and eclectic scenes created to showcase items. So energizing. The piece behind the register is always amazing – pay attention the next time you’re there! I always leave feeling centered, as crazy as that sounds, and often with a new pair of shoes!
Find something that serves as your virtual “margarita” and mellows you out. Hey, even an actual margarita or two is acceptable on occasion!
Suggestions? Email me at sproutstyle@gmail.com, and your tip could be shared on The Voice of Mom!
Health Writer Dee Devine also writes her own blog, sproutstyle, as well as for La Vie Cherie, Swami Baby and Barefoot Mommies.
